Loosing Focus

 

I’m a little behind. There is still so much to do before Christmas and I am getting concerned that some of what I had planned may not be accomplished before Christmas Day.

 

???????????????????????????????For instance, if our Christmas cards are not in the mail tomorrow, they will not arrive before Christmas. For many, this really wouldn’t be a problem. However, we have created our own Christmas card for years, so I can’t see us going out and purchasing a box of cards to send to family and friends.

 

Then there are the trees. They have lights on them, but no ornaments. I’m no expert, but I think the trees would look much better with a few baubles.

 

I don’t bake, but I would like to make some candy. Something special for us to nibble on between now and the New Year.

 

I also know that I can be this way when I’m in the middle of a big project or event at church. I’m so focused on the details that I miss the main thing. People. Relationships. Jesus.

 

Maybe this was how Martha felt as she rustled around in the kitchen preparing a meal for Jesus and His disciples. There was so much to do that she also missed the main thing. People. Relationships. Jesus.

 

I really don’t want to miss Christmas this year. So what do I propose?

 

Focus on Jesus. I cannot afford to skip my daily time with Him. This must be a priority. I remember Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:33 (NIV). “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Words to live by!

 

Focus on family. I need to remember to be present with my family. When we are together, they are most important.

 

Focus on friends. I must remember to leave enough margin in my daily schedule for the precious moments I can spend with good friends. When life is too busy to pick up a phone, send an email or visit over lunch, life is just too busy.

 

Focus on others. I tend to go through life with blinders. Running from one thing to another with very little time to stop and see those around me who are hurting or who are in need. I must learn to see others through Jesus’ eyes and make the time to help if I can. Even an open ear for a few moments is better than not noticing them.

 

Perhaps you are feeling this same way today. I would encourage you to think about the steps listed above and see if you could also have a peaceful Christmas this year.

 

To be honest, my “to do” list could go on and on. There are always things to get done. Maybe my perfect Christmas won’t happen this year. Maybe Christmas will come and go with everything at home just as it is. If so, I need to be okay with that.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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