Milk Toast or Milquetoast

 

In my little devotion book about the beach, the author mentioned milquetoast. I hadn’t heard this word in years and for certain didn’t recall seeing it in print, so I was intrigued.

 

???????????????????????????????Turns out, the word milquetoast was brought into our world through a comic strip by H. T. Webster. In The Timid Soul, Casper Milquetoast was created as the character who was timid, weak or a bland person. We now use the term milquetoast to describe such a person.

 

However, milquetoast is not to be confused with milk toast, which seems to be a comfort food in nearly every region and culture around the globe. It always includes bread of some sort and the topping is milk-based. But each area has added their own twist to make it unique.

 

Some warm the milk while others serve it cold. Some add sugar and complementary spices while others use savory spices. Some cultures thicken the milk as a white sauce while others would never consider changing the consistency of milk (Asia actually uses sweetened, condensed milk).

 

As I mentioned earlier, this dish brings great comfort to many in our world, but in its original form, milk toast is bland. This is where the term milquetoast gained its inspiration.

 

When it comes to our spiritual lives, God has called us to move beyond milquetoast lives. God has called us live boldly for Him. Don’t believe me? Take a look at some of these verses.

 

“The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.” (Proverbs 28:1 – NIV)

 

“They did what your power and will had decided beforehand should happen. Now, Lord, consider their threats and enable your servants to speak your word with great boldness. Stretch out your hand to heal and perform miraculous signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant Jesus. After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.” (Acts 4:28-31 – NIV)

 

“Therefore, since we have such a hope, we are very bold.” (2 Corinthians 3:12 – NIV)

 

“For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.” (2 Timothy 1:7 – NIV)

 

I don’t know about you, but these few verses certainly show me that I haven’t been as bold as I should be. Did you catch the part about being filled with the Holy Spirit? God’s Spirit is within us to make us bold. To boldly be righteous people, speaking God’s truth-filled message, and sharing our hope in love. I don’t think I do this nearly as often as I should

 

We have some really good examples in Scripture of men and women who boldly spoke God’s message. Noah, Moses, Esther, Nathan, Isaiah, Daniel, John the baptizer, Peter, Paul, Aquila and Priscilla just to name a few.

 

Were these extra-ordinary people? I don’t believe so. I believe these were ordinary people who were willing to allow God’s Spirit to move them from a milquetoast life to a bold way of living. We can do the same thing.

 

When we allow the Holy Spirit to move and then take action when He prompts, extra-ordinary things will happen. Our lives will move from timid to powerful. We simply need to be willing, useful vessels of God’s Spirit.

 

I pray that you will find it within yourself to ask God where He wants to take you today. Ask what He wants you to do. Then, in boldness, take that first step toward a powerful, Spirit-filled life. I can’t wait to see what God has in store for me today!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Birds of a Feather on a Wire

 

It’s that time of year. Perhaps you’ve noticed it. Birds are flocking together and sitting atop wires along the road. Apparently, this is a phenomenon that occurs in the fall, as the weather begins to cool. I suspect there are other times of the year that it happens, but autumn is when it is most obvious to me.

 

birdsSince I’m not an expert on bird behavior, I “Googled” it. Why do birds gather on power lines? I found a few interesting pieces of information. First, some birds gather in this way at dawn and dusk for protection. They are able to look for predators and you know there is always safety in numbers.

 

Then there is the migration staging reason. When they are organized in this fashion, it takes less effort to “head south.”

 

They also gather in this fashion for companionship and to find a mate. Kind of like on-line dating. Ha. Get it?

 

And then, there is a thing called “loafing.” Their bellies are full and they want to chill. And what better place to do so than with a few hundred other birds?

 

Community is just as important to birds as it is to us. Friendship, companionship, and common interests draw humans together. The desire to be loved and accepted are important for us and we tend to be attracted to people who are like us.

 

Today, let’s look at some of our biblical friends who were part of communities.

 

People have gathered together since the beginning of time. Genesis 11 shares the account of people gathering to build a city with a tower that would reach to the heavens. They wanted to make a name for themselves. Unfortunately, this was not part of God’s plan and caused confusion among the workers. Ultimately, this band of friends split up because of communication issues.

 

In another situation, a group of men (an army) gathered at the “spring of Harod.” They were set to fight against the Midianites and Gideon had been guaranteed a victory. But once again, God said “no” and sent all but 300 men home. God was able to use these men to defeat the Midianites (Judges 7:1-25).

 

In the New Testament we find a decree from Caesar Augustus demanding a census be taken. Everyone needed to go to their hometown. Joseph and Mary traveled to Bethlehem and it’s during this great gathering that Jesus, the Messiah was born (Luke 2:1-7).

 

There were other times when community gatherings were celebratory. Think of the Jewish feasts. The Feast of Trumpets (Nehemiah 8:1-12). Purim (Esther 9:17-19). The Passover (Luke 2:41-52; John 12:12-19). The Feast of Dedication or the Feast of Lights (John 10:22-24). And Pentecost (Acts 2:1-41).

 

Oh and what about gatherings to learn of God’s ways? John the baptizer drew crowds (Luke 3:7-18). Jesus drew lots of crowds (Matthew 5:1-2; Matthew 14:13-21; John 12:9). Jesus taught also in the temple (Mark 11:27-12:44).

 

And I would be remiss if I didn’t mention a few intimate gatherings. Jesus called His first disciples (Matthew 4:18-22). Jesus clarified His teachings with His disciples (Matthew 13:36). Jesus called for greater faith (Matthew 14:25-33). Jesus gathered little children to Himself (Matthew 19:13-15). Jesus had a conversation with a rich young man (Mark 10:17-31). And who could forget the message Jesus delivered to Martha (Luke 10:38-42)?

 

After Jesus’ resurrection, we see Him continue with these intimate gatherings. There is the walk from Jerusalem to Emmaus (Luke 24:13-35). His appearance to the disciples (Luke 24:36-49). And the restoration of Peter (John 21:15-19).

 

Community. Gatherings. Living life together. It was important in the Bible and it is important to us today.

 

 

If you are not connected to a local church or part of a small group who studies the Bible, I would encourage you to get connected. Are you looking to find God’s plan for your life? If so, the church and Bible study groups are a great way to seek God. Why not get connected today?

 

Just like the early church, we find great comfort in being together. I pray that today you’re able to be part of a community as they did in Acts 2:46-47 (NIV). “Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.”

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Who’s the Boss?

Today is National Boss’ Day. I’ve had my fair share of bosses through the years. Some have been great, some have been, well, not so great.

 

DSC00470mMy first boss was my Dad. I was blessed to work for the church as his secretary for about two years in high school. One thing I recall is that I could sign his name perfectly. I will admit, however, that I never used that on anything other than letters I sent out for him.

 

I recall a boss who hated rice because it reminded him of his childhood. Another boss loved lime green and purple. One kind-hearted boss suggested that I place a bowl of candy on my desk to attract friends. One whose spiritual wisdom helped me pointed me to Jesus each day. Another whose smile warmed my heart as much as the coffee we sipped between jobs. And yet another who sat staunchly behind a large desk and barked out orders.

 

Funny some of the things that came to mind as I thought of my bosses through the years. Each with their different styles and yet, they had a role. To be a leader.

 

I must say that I am currently blessed with a fabulous boss. He is kind-hearted, fun-loving, and spirit-filled. It’s no wonder he fills the role he does today.

 

Forbes Magazine shared a few key points about leadership. This is their list. Great leaders: provide inspiration; teach and learn; are bold; are humble; listen to people; strike a balance; and tackle challenges.[i] Yes, I would say they have a good list here.

 

As I look at this list, I would say Jesus knew exactly how to be a great leader. Jesus definitely provided inspiration (Matthew 16:13-20; Matthew 22:34-40; Matthew 28:19-20). Jesus was the best teacher (Matthew 5, 6 and 7). Jesus was bold (Matthew 21:12-13). Jesus was humble (Matthew 11:25-30). Jesus listened to people (Matthew 19:13-15; Matthew 20:29-34). Jesus was able to strike a balance (Matthew 14:13-21; Matthew 26:6-13). And Jesus tackled challenges (Matthew 8:23-27).

 

As a great leader, Jesus asks us to follow Him. To go where He leads. To do as He asks. Perhaps one quality missed in the list above is that a great leader leads by example. Jesus does not ask us to do anything that He wasn’t willing to do Himself. We have His example to follow.

 

I believe each of us should ask ourselves if we are following Jesus’ example. And maybe we need to ask ourselves a few more questions.

 

Am I an “all in” follower of Jesus?

Do I pick and choose the areas I want to follow Jesus’ example?

Who is the boss of my life? Jesus or me?

 

National Boss’ Day is the perfect day to make a deeper commitment to Jesus and allow Him to have full Lordship and Kingship of our lives. Today as you acknowledge the boss in your working world, I pray that you will take the time to acknowledge Jesus as the boss of your life.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

[i] http://www.forbes.com/sites/ilyapozin/2014/04/10/16-leadership-quotes-to-inspire-you-to-greatness/

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That Dress Re-design Doesn’t Really Have to Happen at 3 AM

 

Joy's dressUGH! This is going to be a l-o-o-o-o-n-g day. My body was not ready to get out of bed, but my mind was on the hunt for a fix to the Queen Elsa dress I’m making for my granddaughter. While I believe I’ve come up with a solution, how I wish I could have thought about it with the sun in the sky.

 

I’m tired. Have you said those words before? I know I have. As a young mother with three children 4 years and under, I was tired. But it never seemed to keep me from doing what needed to be done. What I had to do I did. Anything else, well, simply didn’t.

 

During busy times in my life, I was tired. Like gearing up for Vacation Bible School. I created, developed, and wrote VBS programs for years. But it was hard work. By the end of each VBS, I was tired.

 

I was the choir director at most of the churches we ministered to through the years. Easter and Christmas cantatas were busy times for me. Rehearsals, building sets, making costumes, memorizing music. These elements led to being tired.

 

And then there are the times with my family. My children and grandchildren live in Colorado, but my parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family all live in Ohio. I live 1,200 miles from my family. When we are together, I want to do everything there is to do with them. I want to be in the middle of it all. When I am with my family, I am tired. But the thing is I wouldn’t change a thing. Being with my family is so good for me. Loving on those I love brings joy to my heart.

 

Jesus was tired on occasion. When He was tired He spent time with His Father. Over and over Jesus can be seen withdrawing from the crowd and praying through the night. It was good for Him. It brought joy to His heart.

 

Jesus also knew how to comfort those who were tired. In Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV), Jesus tells the crowd of His plan for being weary. It is one He urges us to try as well. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

 

How wonderful that we have a Savior who cares when we are tired. How wonderful that it is His desire to take that weariness and carry our load for us.

 

So why don’t we give our weariness to Jesus? Why aren’t we willing to give it to Jesus and accept rest in return?

 

I suspect we are a little stubborn. I suspect we are a little controlling. I suspect we are a little rebellious. I suspect we are a little “whatever your reason for not giving your weariness to Jesus might be” inserted here.

 

Jesus truly wants to take our weariness and burdens. He wants us to find rest. His rest. Isn’t it time to loosen the grip on these issues? Isn’t it time to give them all to Jesus?

 

Jesus’ gentle and humble heart knows exactly what we need. Rest for our souls. And He is offering it all to us. We simply need to accept it.

 

Yes, I am tired. But with Jesus in the middle of my life and my day, I know I can make it through the most tiring of days. I can’t wait to see what this day will bring!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Find the Lizard

 

As I worked on my beach room, one element I knew I wanted to display was a lizard or two. If you’ve ever been near the beach, you know these little critters are everywhere! This proved to be more difficult than I thought. Whenever I was out and about, I was on the hunt for lizards.

 

lizard 1I found two lizards that worked, but they weren’t quite right. Then I finally found a bag of 12 plastic lizards that seemed to be okay, so I purchased the bag, brought them home and then gave some of them permanent homes. That left nine lizards.

 

I really thought the grandkids would enjoy playing with them, but as it turns out, it’s become a game of hide and seek between my daughters, grandkids and myself.

 

They hide the lizards and I have to find them. The thing is they are good hiders! I search and search and search each week and sometimes, regardless of how much I look, I can’t seem to find them all. For instance, right now, I have found eight lizards. There is one still hiding in this beach room and I can’t find it! Who would have thought plastic lizards could be as good as live chameleons?

 

lizards

 

Sometimes we find ourselves doing this same thing in our lives. Searching for that “one thing” that will satisfy. Seeking the perfect “one thing” that will bring everything else into alignment. Or perhaps it’s the “next thing” that will make your life right.

 

When we live our lives in such a way, we are always going to be searching. Always looking. Always seeking. Always pursuing.

 

And sometimes in this pursuit, we miss out on the best we could have hoped for.

 

Let’s take a look at what God thinks is worthwhile of our pursuit. The things He believes we should be seeking.

 

Obviously, God wants us to look for Him. Psalm 105:3-4 (NIV) says it this way. “Glory in his name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always.”

 

And Psalm 119:2 (NIV) also says, “Blessed are they who keep his statues and seek him with all their heart.” We must seek God above all else. The rewards are amazing!

 

And what else should we seek? Here are a few.

 

“Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.” (Psalm 34:14 – NIV)

 

“He who seeks good finds goodwill, but evil comes to him who searches for it.” (Proverbs 11:27 – NIV)

 

“The Lord detests the way of the wicked but he loves those who pursue righteousness.” (Proverbs 15:9 – NIV)

 

“He who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor.” (Proverbs 21:21 – NIV)

 

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33 – NIV)

 

“Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.” (1 Corinthians 10:24 – NIV)

 

“But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness.” (1 Timothy 6:11 – NIV)

 

“Flee from evil desire of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” (2 Timothy 2:22 – NIV)

 

This is quite a list. Perhaps if we pursue or seek all of these things, we won’t have time to seek our selfish desires.

 

As we seek God first and foremost, those remaining should be easy to find. They are all qualities of God that keep directing us to Him.

 

What are you seeking today?

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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