What I’m Reading

I’ve managed to do it again. I’ve found an interest in three books and am in the process of reading all three. Eventually I will finish these as I’ve done with others in the past.

 

Daytona 500 004So first of all I’m reading a book for work. As part of my summer goals, I’ve determined to read a book a month and find three things to pull from each book and implement it into my life at work. I chose Take the Stairs by Rory Vaden[i] to read through the month of May. Yes, I have to finish it today, but what I’ve learned from Mr. Vaden is that there are no shortcuts in this world if we want to be successful. It will take work. There will be pain along the way. But when we chose to “take the stairs” over the escalator or elevator, we are making improvement in our life. That’s how I can measure success in the work place.

 

The second book I’m reading was written by the gal who runs the bed and breakfast in Irvine, Kentucky. Mom and I stayed there a couple of nights last month. Johnetta Kirby Dunaway wrote Under the Cowboy Hat[ii] and it is a biographical book about her marriage to Cincinnati FOP President, Elmer Dunaway. While there were some tough times in their marriage, Johnetta tells a great story. She shares funny accounts of her younger days and there have multiple times I’ve laughed out loud. I’ve fallen in love with her whit, her style and her writing ability. I want to read more Johnetta!

 

Finally the last book I’m reading just came yesterday, but as soon as I received it, I opened the pages and started reading. Faith in the Fast Lane: How NASCAR Found Jesus[iii] is written by Chad Bonham. In the introduction of this book, Mr. Bonham shares his experiences of worship services before a NASCAR race, prayers offered before each race, and the individual people who pray for each driver before the race begins.

 

And then the race begins. Wrecks occur. Tempers flare. Mistakes are made. Foul language escapes lips. Even fighting in the pit area. Seems a world away from the hour before the race that pointed people to Jesus.

 

But then I read this paragraph:

 

“The NASCAR race day experience is a lot like real life. Some people get along. Some people don’t. Drama happens, and sometimes it gets ugly. And often all of this occurs in places where spirituality and irreverence run congruently. Sure, there are strong measures of faith to be found here, but this is by no means a sanitized environment.”[iv]

 

And then I realized that this is exactly what we all face each day when we leave our little cocoon. We spend a little time with Jesus. We read the Bible. We meditate over what we’ve read. We pray. We listen. We ask for the Holy Spirit to lead and guide us throughout our day. And then we face the world.

 

Traffic

Extra workload

Grumpy boss

Bank overdraft

Car breakdown

Needy coworker

More traffic

Dinner

Kid’s soccer game

Cranky kids

Exhaustion

 

It’s no wonder we lose focus on Jesus before we even make it to work!

 

So how can we be more conscious of Jesus throughout our day? Let me give you a few ideas.

 

First, listen to something uplifting while you’re in traffic. After the Colorado flood in September, I sat in traffic for 1 ½ hours to work and back home each day. I found that when my music was happy, I was happy. Find a radio station that fills you with good (K-Love for instance). Or create a playlist of your favorite songs and only listen to that.

 

Another idea is to listen to the Bible as you drive. I love hearing what God’s Word says to me. Almost as if God is speaking to my heart. Right now I’m listening to 1st and 2nd Peter (I will be writing a study on these two books and need to hear/read it as often as I can). What better encouragement is there than hearing “You are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” (1 Peter 2:9 – NIV)

 

Work conditions are obviously different, but staying positive and focusing on Jesus must be the goal. A little sticky note in your drawer with a verse of Scripture might help. If you’re not at a desk, put the note in your pocket. Each time you touch it you’ll remember what to stay focused on.

 

Smile. I’ve found that my relaxed face isn’t as appealing as it could be. So I’ve chosen to smile more. When I am busy working on my computer and realize how my face may look to others, I immediately smile. It lifts my spirits and I’m sure it’s much more appealing to those who walk by my office as well. This one I’m still working on.

 

Co-workers may find themselves coming to you because of who you are in Jesus. You remain calm in stressful situations. You just seem to have it all together. But it can be a drag sometimes when others are sharing the horrors of their own lives. Maybe it’s time to ask if you can pray for them. Open the door to sharing your faith. Tell them why you are able to do the things you do. It’s all because of Jesus.

 

And then there’s the home situation. As soon as you walk in the door it seems like it’s time to do something. Fix dinner. Help with homework. Do a load of laundry. Run Bobby to practice. I find that when I know what I’m going to prepare for dinner, there is less stress in my household. Granted, we’re all adults here (really, three adults live in my home), but there does seem to be a little stress for me. So when I feel like I’m about done with it all, I go to my office and I’m reminded of Who is in control of it all. Jesus. I read the Scriptures on my wall. I recall the good things that Philippians 4:8 tells me to think about. And then I head back to the kitchen. Maybe I need to put verses of Scripture in my kitchen. I like that idea.

 

Life is never going to be completely smooth. Life can be messy. Life can be, as Mr. Bonham called it, “an unsanitized environment.” It’s in those moments that we must remember to give all of the mess to Jesus. Just try it. You might be amazed of what He’s able to do with it.

 

Perhaps you have other ideas for helping you remember to think about Jesus throughout your day. If you do, please share! I’d love to hear from you!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

[i] Take the Stairs, Rory Vaden, Published by the Penguin Group, 2012.

[ii] Under the Cowboy Hat, Johnetta Kirby Dunaway, Published by J. Dunaway Publishing, 1997.

[iii] Faith in the Fast Lane: How NASCAR Found Jesus, Chad Bonham, Published by Judson Press, 2014.

[iv] Faith in the Fast Lane: How NASCAR Found Jesus, Chad Bonham, Published by Judson Press, 2014, page xiii.

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Phew!

Phew! What a morning it’s been. It’s 8:00 am and I’m just starting to write material for my blog post today. So let me tell you what’s been going on.

 

Yesterday morning things began as usual in our home. Mason and I woke up at 5:00 am. He left for work at 6:00 am. I wrote my blog post and followed up with all of my social media bases and then prepared to leave for work myself by 8:00 am. However, at 7:58 am I received a phone call.

 

It was the HR DirectID-10053903or where my husband works. She explained that Mason was experiencing some symptoms that warranted an ambulance ride to the hospital. She assured me that he was going to be okay, but that I should probably head to the hospital.

 

Unfortunately, the hospital is 40 minutes from our house. So I had a lot of time to share my concerns with God. I remembered God’s promises to be with me through each situation. I recalled the words spoken to Paul by the Lord in 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV). “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” I held on to the hope that I have in Christ Jesus. These were good moments for me…perhaps the calm before the storm?

 

When I arrived at the hospital, they had begun the battery of tests and so far they hadn’t found anything to cause the symptoms Mason was experiencing. So they kept looking. After several hours, the doc had no real answers except that he was probably dehydrated and maybe had a touch of a stomach virus.

 

He was discharged from the hospital with the instructions to take it easy, to touch base with his regular physician and if he had any further symptoms to immediately head to the ER…the closest ER to our home I might add.

 

He spent the afternoon relaxing. I did a little work from home. And he started to feel like himself again as the day went on. No other symptoms. No other problems. It was as if nothing had even occurred.

 

Now I can tell you why I’m running late this morning. Mason’s car was at work. He needed a ride. So our morning started much like it did yesterday, except that when he left at 6:00 am, I was in the driver’s seat.

 

You know there are times in our lives when we are interrupted by something. I can be an event or it can be a person. What I would encourage you with today is that we need to embrace those interruptions…maybe not even think of them as interruptions but as opportunities. Opportunities for God to show up in those situations.

 

When we are open to God’s leading in our lives, it is amazing what He has prepared for us. In some situations we may be stretched. In others we may be ministered to. All I know is that when I am in tune with God’s Spirit, some pretty cool stuff happens.

 

Mason and I were both humbled and blessed by the prayers, thoughts and encouragement we received yesterday. Mine naturally came from my church family who were concerned. Mason was touched by the folks at United Power who also showed their concern for his health.

 

I just smile, because I know that my God has placed us in these work places. He has surrounded us by people who genuinely care about others. And we both felt His love through our co-workers.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Big Green Booger

Nearly ten years ago, my current boss hired me to be his assistant at a different church in town. It’s been an amazing journey and I’m filled with awe and pride as I’ve watched him mature into a lead pastor at a mega church.

 

unnamedHowever, ten years ago we worked together forming small groups and ministering with young couples. For one activity, an Amazing Race game was planned. My role in this race was to sit in the local mall, wear the color green and wait for teams to ask me if I was the Big Green Booger. Once they asked, I handed them their clue.

 

For years, I was known as the Big Green Booger. I laughed when someone mentioned it. But now that I’m in a different church with a different group of folks, I hoped this nickname hadn’t followed me.

 

Last night I was at a volunteer gathering at our secondary campus. Since I’ve been on staff, I have probably only been at this campus a dozen times. So I’m not surprised that most people don’t know who I am.

 

However, a young woman came up to me and said, “I thought I recognized you and then I realized you were the Sewing Lady. You spoke for our Women’s Bible Connection group last fall.”

 

I laughed. I’d gone from being the Big Green Booger to the Sewing Lady! I believe I’ve moved up!

 

I wondered what other names I might be known as. Of course there’s Mom, Sweety (as my husband calls me), Baba, Dear One (my Dad’s term of endearment), and Friend.

 

I suspect sometimes I may be known by names I’d rather not mention here, but when my attitude is not in line with God’s Spirit, I can be rather harsh.

 

As a Christian, I know that I am no longer known as Foreigner or Alien, but instead I’m known as a Fellow Citizen and Member of God’s Household (Ephesians 2:19).

 

Here’s a list of some other names I am to be known by:

 

God’s Workmanship (Ephesians 2:10)

Imitator of God and Dearly Loved Child (Ephesians 5:1)

Light of the Lord (Ephesians 5:8)

God’s Chosen People (Colossians 3:12)

Peaceful and Thankful (Colossians 3:15)

Prayerful (Colossians 4:2)

Wise (Colossians 4:5)

Graceful (Colossians 4:6)

Sanctified (1 Thessalonians 4:3)

Encourager (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

Joyful (1 Thessalonians 5:16)

Approved Workman (2 Timothy 2:15)

Holy (Hebrews 10:10)

Faithful (Hebrews 11:1)

Pure, Peace-loving, Considerate, Submissive, Full of Mercy and Good Fruit (James 3:17)

Self-controlled (1 Peter 1:13)

Living Stone (1 Peter 2:5)

Spiritual House (1 Peter 2:5)

Holy Priesthood (1 Peter 2:5)

 

These are just a handful of names we should be known by. Quite overwhelming isn’t it? Perhaps the good news here is that we are not capable of living up to these names on our own. So how are we to do it?

 

God has given us His Spirit to dwell within us. It’s through the Holy Spirit that we are able to take on these names as well as others. Like Love, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

 

Perhaps you are feeling like a big green booger today and need a make-over. If that’s the case, why not allow Jesus to get to work on you? If you do, others will see the change and they will begin to call you by the spiritual names listed above.

 

Regardless of how you feel, God will always call you His Beloved. That is who you are in Christ Jesus. That is the most beautiful name in the world.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Mountains and a Beach

We are undergoing a few changes in our household. I’m painting a couple of rooms. I’m moving furniture from upstairs to downstairs and vice versa. I’ve purchased a few new pieces. There are a lot of changes going on.

 

You see Mom will be visiting shortly and she will be here for a while. She’s got a bum knee which makes it difficult to walk up and down stairs. For her safety and to relieve some of her pain, I’m making my office into a bedroom for her.

 

Now you may think I’m giving up something pretty special. My office. But my new office will be much cooler. It’s the front bedroom of our home which faces the mountains. And it’s my beach-themed room. So I get the view of the mountains plus the feel of sitting on the beach. To be honest, I don’t know why I didn’t choose that room in the first place.

 

Daytona Beach 021mBut to be honest, right now I’m overwhelmed with this change. Monday morning I woke up thinking, “I have to do all of these projects today.” Hah! No wonder I’m overwhelmed.

 

So I’ve prioritized the changes that need to be made. I’m working on them one at a time to get them done in an orderly fashion. And I’ve already crossed off two items on my “to do” list!

 

Change will always happen. There’s no way around it. Our spiritual lives must always be changing as well. If we aren’t changing, we become stagnant. We aren’t following God’s instructions for our lives. God’s plan clearly includes change. He speaks of a new creation, transformation, taking off the old, putting on the new, and spiritual maturity.

 

Change

In Matthew 18:3, Jesus tells the group that change must occur. That change must include trust and great faith in what God is able to do. “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Without change, the kingdom of heaven is a far off dream.

 

New Creation

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17) With Christ, we become new. A new creation. He created us. He redeemed us. He fulfills the re-creation of us through His sacrifice.

 

Transformation

Paul shares with the Corinth church that being transformed into Jesus’ likeness is part of the process. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” Transformation is accompanied by radiance that is from the Lord.

 

Taking Off the Old, Putting On the New

Ephesians 4:22-24 tells us that we must take off our old lifestyle and put on a new lifestyle. Not just at the moment of salvation, but for always. “You were taught with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by it is deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”

 

Spiritual Maturity

“So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.” (Colossians 2:6-8) We move toward spiritual maturity when we live in Christ and are rooted and built up in Christ. Our faith is strengthened so that we are less susceptible of being deceived by false teachings.

 

We must not become stagnant in our spiritual lives. We must continue to learn, study, and apply all that God’s Word has to say to us. We must also share our story with others. Who have you shared your change of heart with?

 

I can’t wait to get these changes done in my home. I look forward to sitting in front of the window and looking out toward my beautiful Rocky Mountains. But like anything worthwhile in our lives, it takes effort on my part. So all I can say is, let’s “git ‘er done!”

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Heritage Square

I spent Saturday with my two daughters and my three grandkids at a local attraction called Heritage Square. On this particular day, we enjoyed a car show, a walk around the town, as well as the amusement park rides. It was a day filled with great memories.

 

The CrewThe biggest problem we faced was the difference in ages of my grandkids. I have a 7 ½ year old, a 3 year old and a 16 month old. Joy wanted to do everything in the amusement park. She has been to several and knows what fun is available in those joy rides. While Percy found great enjoyment on the rides, he wasn’t able to go on all the rides that Joy was able to ride.

 

And then there was little Leslieanna. It was her first experience and we found very quickly that she wasn’t as impressed with the ups and downs, round and rounds of the few rides she tried. She didn’t even like the merry-go-round. So for the most part, she sat in her stroller and loved watching the activity.

 

P & CNear the end of our day, we found a great roller coaster that Percy fell in love with. In total, he rode this snake ride four times. When it was time to go, he was devastated. He didn’t want to quit and was so upset that our time at Heritage Square had come to an end.

 

There is quite an age difference between my grandkids which means their maturity levels are different, their interests vary, and their abilities are unique. These differences cause some difficulty in finding fun things to do with this trio. When the younger ones are happy and occupied, the older one is bored. When the older one is stimulated, the younger ones have nothing to do. Finding a perfect balance is the key, but it’s also nearly impossible.

 

I believe there are times in our lives when we are out of balance. Kind of like a washing machine where more wet clothes are on one side than the other. It jiggles and shakes and makes all kinds of noise until the clothing is readjusted in the tub.

 

I’m sure you know exactly what I’m talking about. There are demands placed upon us each day. Work and family seem to be out of balance most often. When work demands more of our time, family gets less of us. And sometimes it’s the other way around.

 

Another area where we tend to become unbalanced is with physical and spiritual needs. The Apostle Paul understood the importance of this balance in our lives and what happens when we allow our physical desires to take precedence over our spiritual needs. I’m going to quote the most confusing portion of Paul’s writings…but it shows just how unbalanced we can become.

 

“I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.” (Romans 7:18-20 – NIV)

 

The only way to regain balance in this situation is to take sin out of the equation all together. If we do not, our sinful nature will cause our spiritual life to be out of balance. The washer tub of our lives must be set aright and our eyes set upon our Savior once again. Balance will return through our repentance and confession of sin.

 

Another area of unbalance may be the care of our physical bodies. While I understand the importance of keeping our bodies useful for God’s Kingdom, if we put all of our efforts into our physical body and less into our spiritual soul, we’ve become out of balance. Look at Paul’s encouragement for Timothy. “For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.” (1 Timothy 4:8 – NIV)

 

Balance in our lives is only achieved by doing one thing. Being with Jesus. Jesus shared this idea with His disciples in John 15. His words were to “remain in Him.” As we come to know Jesus in this intimate way, balance will be restored.

 

I have no answer for the family/work balance. There have been times when I’ve done well and other times I’ve failed. But what I do know is that if my personal relationship with Jesus is in balance, His Spirit will lead and guide me to keep balance in all other areas of my life. Jesus is the key. Remain in Him.

 

Heritage Square was great fun for my family. Although there were some difficulties to overcome, it was wonderful to see the smiles on my grandkids faces. I know we’ll make a return visit…just to see them smile!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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