Mom’s Day

Several years ago, Mom published a cook book of her many delicious recipes with some wonderful stories. She asked each of her children to write a little bit for the forward. My first draft was rejected by Mom (and I’ve come to learn that it was the easiest rejection of my writing to date)…the second draft was accepted.

 

???????????????????????????????I’d like to share my first draft with you today. I pray that you will be able to see the wonderful woman she is through my words.

 

My Mom is a balcony person in my life. What is balcony person? They are the people in your life who are always on your side. They will cheer you on when no one else seems to. They believe in you and they see the vision of what God made you to be.

 

Mom sacrificed so that I could take voice lessons in high school because she thought I had a good voice and that voice lessons would make my voice great. Mom sold a set of silver salt and pepper shakers when I became engaged so that I could buy the wedding dress she knew I’d look stunning in.

 

My children know that Grandma is on their side as well. She’s the one who spent hours with Philip helping him to find a job and encouraged him to keep looking.

 

She was at as many of Candace’s high school dramas that she could attend and really enjoyed each one!

 

Mom was thrilled about her grandchild’s (Bethany) elopement and the birth of her first great grandchild, Joy. Even more by the birth of her second great grandchild, Percy.

 

Mom has always said that her grandchildren have a safe haven at her home.

 

When we are with Mom, we may not always hear what we want to hear, but that’s another characteristic of a balcony person. They believe and expect you can change. They don’t believe that what you were yesterday will hinder you from being what you are today or what you can become tomorrow.

 

Mom has held the standard high for me and that’s okay. She’s also taught me how to be a balcony person for my own children and grandchildren. I know first-hand how much it means to be an encourager to my children.

 

We see a glimpse of the ultimate encourager in the Bible, Barnabas. Barnabas had God’s heart for people. He sold property to help those in need, he accepted Paul for who he was, and encouraged the church leaders to accept Paul as well.

 

Barnabas embraced Gentile believers and encouraged them to continue to seek God’s grace. Barnabas was willing go to bat for a young man that Paul didn’t believe was suitable to be a traveling companion.

 

Barnabas had a gift. The gift to encourage anyone who crossed his path, regardless of who they were.

 

The lesson we can learn from Barnabas and Mom is that everyone needs encouragement. Everyone needs a balcony person. Don’t pass up an opportunity to let someone know how much they mean to you and to God.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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The Valley View Ferry

Ferry3At the end of my time in Kentucky, Mom and I decided to sail across the Kentucky River on the Valley View Ferry. It turned out to be a thrilling experience and one that I’ll not forget too soon. Mom and I pulled up to the bank of the Kentucky River and watched as the ferry chugged across to our side. A few cars pulled off and the waiting cars pulled on.

 

I began snapping pictures and the captain walked out from his perch. Clearly, the signs told me to stay in my car, but the captain gave me permission to get out take the photos I wanted. He also gave me a little piece of paper with the history of this ferry. Below are the highlights.

 

Ferry2John Craig was granted permission by the Governor of Virginia (Patrick Henry) to start this ferry service in 1785. That was seven years before Kentucky would be a state. Because of this unique heritage, this ferry is allowed to fly both the Kentucky and Virginia State flags.

 

The Valley View Ferry has transported pioneers, farmers, business folk, Revolutionary and Civil War soldiers over the 229 years it’s traveled from one bank to the other. This little ferry is the last ferry on the Kentucky River.

 

Ferry1I wonder if you find this as interesting as I do. Revolutionary war soldiers crossed the river in the very spot I crossed the Kentucky River! My ancestors used that ferry to move about the State of Kentucky. It was a surreal moment for me and one that I won’t quickly forget.

 

This little jaunt across the river brings to mind thoughts of my Christian heritage as well. Thoughts of when another group of people were faced with crossing a river or two. A few times when crossing a body of was difficult and frightening.

 

I recall the Hebrew nation standing at the banks of the Red Sea (Exodus 13:17-14:31). Perhaps some of them felt the excitement of crossing as I did, but for most of them, it was probably terrifying. But God said, “Go” and they did.

 

FerryA little later, the next generation made another crossing at the Jordan River just outside of Jericho (Joshua 3:1-4:18). The river was at flood stage and it was flowing rapidly. But again, they were told to “Go” and they did.

 

Jesus asked His disciples to cross the Sea of Galilee and encountered a storm on at least two occasions. In one instance, Jesus walked to them from the shore (Matthew 14:22-33). On the other occasion, Jesus rebuked His disciples for their lack of faith (Mark 4:35-41).

 

In each of these instances, God was there. He was with them in the midst of the crossing. We can believe that He is with us through the difficulties and victories of our own lives.

 

Jesus told His disciples before He left that God would send the Holy Spirit to be with them and with us (John 14:26). He also said, “Surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20 – NIV)

 

Regardless of what we face during the day, we can be assured that we have God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit with us. We have nothing to fear.

 

I am thankful for my Kentucky heritage. As I get a little older and have less opportunity to visit this little piece of God’s earth, I find myself recalling stories of my youth while visiting family in those hills near Irvine. How thankful I am for memories!

 

I’m thankful for my Christian heritage as well. I am blessed by those who have given their all in order for me to be able to stand up for what I believe. I am rejuvenated as I read accounts of biblical heroes leading the way into the unknown. I am grateful to God for His precious gift of salvation and grace.

 

I pray that your relationship with Jesus is real and deep. I pray that you know He is with you. I pray that you can call upon His Name and know that He will answer. Always.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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My Old Kentucky Home

HouseI’ve recently returned home from Kentucky. The family farm has been sold. All of the farm possessions have been distributed or donated. While the farm is no longer owned by a Richardson, fond memories of this plot of land and what it has meant to our family are abundant.

 

As part of my “goodbye” to this neck of the woods, I took a walk to the river. The Kentucky River was an important part of the lives that lived along its banks. Sand-loving crops were grown on the banks of the Kentucky. Fish caught in the river were eaten on a regular basis. Part of their livelihood stemmed from this river.

 

???????????????????????????????As I walked the meandering path, there were a few pieces of information I tucked away. First, it was a long way down and back…up and down hills in warmer weather than I’m used to was a bit much as well.

 

Second, things had changed. There were no signs of the old farmhouse. One might even believe there had never been another house!

 

Third, the beauty was staggering! It’s a different beauty than Colorado, but the green, lush meadows up against tall Hickory Nut trees held my attention.

 

???????????????????????????????And finally, the river hadn’t changed. It has remained the same through the years and is still as peaceful and steady as it always has been.

 

I believe we can pull some lessons from this little walk of mine. Things about God and our relationship with Him that are important to remember. Let’s see what we can learn.

 

First, our spiritual walk with God is a journey. As we walk along the path with God, we will meander. We’ll face the up and down moments. We may have to put some effort into it. We may even lose our way at times. But our final destination is worth every bit we put into it. And when we can’t seem to take one more step, God is always available to pick us up and carry us the rest of the way.

 

???????????????????????????????Second, this relationship with God is always changing. Here’s the thing though. God doesn’t change; it’s me who must change. Transformation is what we call it. As I grow spiritually, God’s Spirit shows me areas of my life that are not in line with God’s Word. With the help of the Holy Spirit, I change.

 

Third, God’s beauty amazes me! Yes, this world God created is beautiful, but God Himself is beautiful. King David tried to grasp God’s beauty. He wrote, “Let the beauty of the Lord our God be upon us.” (Psalm 90:17 – NKJV) And, “One thing I ask of the Lord, this is what I seek; that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple.” (Psalm 27:4 – NIV) With all of the ugliness of sin around us, it is refreshing to know and cling to God’s beauty.

 

???????????????????????????????Finally, we learn that God never changes. Scripture confirms this lesson. Look at Malachi 3:6 (NIV). God Himself says, “I the Lord do not change.” We read in James 1:17 (NIV) that “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” Hebrews 13:8 (NIV) tells us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” God’s love, compassion, faithfulness, grace, forgiveness, etc. has not and will not change. You can count on it.

 

My short visit to Kentucky was such a blessing to me. I was inspired. I honored those who came before me. I connected to my heritage. And in the midst of it, God showed up in mighty ways. How blessed I truly am!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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10-Day Detox

Recently I decided to take the plunge and try a 10-day detox from sugar, gluten and dairy. I liked this particular program because I thought it was one I could actually do. And I did!

 

DSC02392mI must say, after 10 days, I felt so much better! No gut issues, a fog-free brain, and more energy than I thought possible were just some of the results.

 

While there were some parts of the detox that were difficult, once I made the decision to give up the bad, it was easy to do so.

 

I wonder what would happen if I did the same thing with my spiritual life? If I chose to rid myself of the toxins that cloud my mind, caused spiritual health issues or zapped all of my energy.

 

For instance if I chose to cut out a specific attitude issue for 10 days, how would that affect my spiritual life? Let’s take Philippians 3:13-14 for example. If I choose to forget what is behind for 10 days, how would that make a difference in my outlook for tomorrow?

 

Or what about Matthew 19:26? If for 10 days I chose to believe that with God all things are possible what might happen?

 

Colossians 3 has an entire list of spiritual guidelines that could be used. A 10-day detox from anger, rage, malice, slander and filthy language. In their place add compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Add in a little forgiveness and love and thankfulness for good measure.

 

I know for certain that I am not able to develop some of these spiritual characteristics on my own, but with God’s Holy Spirit, I know it’s possible.

 

I know I have a long way to go in both my physical and spiritual detox. But I also know how much better I feel when I choose to live according to the plan…both physically and spiritually.

 

Are you ready for a detox?

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Kentucky – Day 6

Colorado Rockies

Colorado Rockies

I’m in Kentucky for a quick family reunion and then clearing out the remaining items of my great aunt’s home. I have been super busy over the last few days and I have been in an area where there wasn’t internet access.

 

So for today, you’ll be reading an older post. I pray that you will find great comfort and exactly what you need through the words on Full Measure of Joy. It’s such a pleasure to write for my Lord.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

Shorthand I

 

In high school, I majored in three areas. Business, home economics and music. I didn’t start taking music classes until my junior year, but took business courses and home economic courses throughout my four years.

 

Through the years I have used the skills I learned in those classes more than I could have imagined. From typing to child care (and everything in between) these were abilities that I would use day-to-day.

 

One of the elements I learned in my business courses was shorthand. We were dictated a letter and then we were to transcribe the letter by typing it. When complete, it was turned into the teacher and what was left of the period was free time.

 

I recall always being the first to be finished. I understood shorthand and rarely made mistakes while writing it down. I was a speedy typist. I could transcribe those letters very quickly. My grades reflected my skill. I received an A+ in Shorthand I (I know this because I have a copy of my high school transcripts in front of me).

 

Jump ahead 30+ years and I must admit my shorthand is a bit rusty. I haven’t used it in years. So imagine my surprise when I pulled out a steno pad and started writing. So much of what I learned came back to me. Oh I’m not nearly as fast as I once was…that will take practice…but the letters, the words, the motions seem natural to me.

 

There have been periods in my life when I’ve chosen to distance myself from God. Busyness, rebellion, even sin have helped with the process. For me, these times never lasted very long. I missed being within God’s protective arms too much to stay away.

 

Each time however, I recall a feeling of normalcy once I returned. The feeling of living within God’s will was very familiar and easy to embrace time after time. I may have been a bit rusty at first, but it wasn’t long before I was back into quiet time with God, Bible study and prayer.

 

When we look at the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) who left all the goodness of home to live in a foreign land. He experienced all the world had to offer and yet when he was at his lowest point, he realized what goodness he rejected.

 

Back in his father’s arms, he knew his mistakes were forgiven. His sense of normalcy had returned. He was once again living within the will of his father. I’m certain he felt unworthy and not-so-good at being a son again, but with the encouragement from his father, he was able to rejoin the family.

 

That is exactly how our heavenly Father reacts to repentance. Forgiveness, wrapped in loving arms, draws us closer to the Father. We rejoin our heavenly family through encouragement and it’s as if we’d never left.

 

I’m thankful for God’s grace. For His desire to have a relationship with me. For the love He abundantly lavishes upon me. For His ability to make me feel special and deserving when I know that I am not.

 

Perhaps you’ve taken a detour on your spiritual journey. If you have, remember the Father is waiting for your return. He is waiting with open arms to embrace and encourage you. He is so anxious to see you that He will meet you along the way. There’s no need to tarry. Simply return.

 

If you have no idea what it feels like to be in God’s arms, maybe it’s time you tried it. God’s grace is amazing. Talk to someone you know who is grace-filled. Let them lead you to the Father through Jesus. And if you have questions, I am eager to help.

 

Shorthand may or may not be part of my future. But what I do know is that I have a future with God. And He accepts me just as I am.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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