White Christmas

Oh the Christmas season is upon us. Christmas lights everywhere you look. Christmas music (which by the way I believe gets a bad rap…remember I could listen to it all year long…and yes, I do) wafting over the loud speakers in grocery stores (I’m sure it’s in other stores as well, however, I haven’t started my Christmas shopping yet, so I haven’t heard it in a department store yet). The scent of Christmas trees throughout homes and shops that remind me of Christmas’ past when I actually had a real tree.

 

Yes Christmas is nearly here.

 

White ChristmasI took my Mom to see the musical “White Christmas” last evening at a local dinner theater. We had so much fun. The food was delicious. The acting and singing were top notch. The musical? Well it’s “White Christmas” so there were comical, heart-touching, and thought-provoking moments throughout the show. Yes, I laughed, thought and cried during this little outing with my Mom and it was priceless.

 

I wonder if the folks who heard Jesus’ teaching didn’t respond in the same way. Perhaps there was laughter. I simply cannot see Jesus being serious all of the time. He must have told a few jokes. He was probably even involved with a few practical jokes. After all, if we are made in “their” image then there must be some fun in “them.” We find things amusing and even funny. We find ourselves laughing. We love to smile. It must be a passed along trait from our heavenly Father, His Son and His Spirit.

 

I’m also certain there were tears at times during Jesus’ teachings and miracles. Perhaps when a child was raised from the dead or a demon tossed out. Or what about when the rich young man refused to give away all that he had to follow Jesus. There were probably tears shed in that moment. We know Jesus cried. He wept at the tomb of His close friend Lazarus. During His prayer time in the garden of Gethsemane, Jesus probably shed a tear or two during His struggle. And after the rooster crowed, Peter wept bitterly for disowning the Man who changed his life.

 

And for sure, there were thought-provoking moments by those who heard Jesus’ words. From the beginning of His three-year ministry to His return to heaven, Jesus made people think. To re-think everything they had been taught up to that time. To give thought to how they treated others and their relationship with their Father. Jesus’ message was to bring people to a closer relationship with God. His message asked for a change in the way of thinking. It was definitely thought-provoking.

 

How has Jesus’ teaching changed you? Have you shed a few tears? Have you laughed along the way? Have you needed to make a thought change? If so, you aren’t alone. Because here’s the thing. Jesus changes us. If we are not changed after hearing His message, His job isn’t finished.

 

We are to find transformation in the words of our Lord. Paul talks about it in Romans 12:2 (NIV). “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

 

We hear, read, study God’s Word (Jesus’ teachings) and we must be changed. Our minds must be renewed. We must be transformed. It’s the only way we can understand God’s will for our lives.

 

So let the tears flow. Let the laughter begin. Let the mind-changing teaching touch your heart. It will be the best Christmas present you can give yourself this year.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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The Hostess with the Mostess

I cooked a lot over the Thanksgiving holiday. It seemed like I was in the kitchen cooking or cleaning constantly. Of course I had a house full of people every day, so it was only natural that this was part of the hostessing.

 

cornicopiaEvery day I would say, “I’m not going to cook tomorrow.” And then tomorrow would come and I would cook a meal, sometimes two meals. One day my son said, “I thought you weren’t going to cook today?” I just chuckled.

 

I then thought I’d have it made if I went back to work on the Monday after Thanksgiving. I would be free of cooking and cleaning.

 

I was wrong. I had volunteered to help cook our staff breakfast on that Monday morning…we started cooking at 7 am. And that evening was our staff Christmas party…I was the last person to leave after 60+ people left my boss’ home.

 

Needless to say, I didn’t have a cook or clean-free day on Monday either.

 

I wonder if that wasn’t a little bit of Martha’s problem in Luke 10. Perhaps she had always been the one who cooked and cleaned in their home. If that was the case, I’m sure Martha knew that she couldn’t depend on Mary for help. But the problem was that Martha couldn’t seem to get past the issue.

 

I can hear Martha banging pans in the kitchen trying to get someone’s attention. Maybe Lazarus would come to her aid. Maybe Mary would begin to feel guilty and come to help. Maybe Jesus’ disciples would think to help. Or maybe Jesus himself would give some assistance to Martha. But Martha received none.

 

Finally, Martha had to come face-to-face with Jesus and make her complaint. She was fed up with the fact that there were many mouths to feed and no one would lift a finger to help her. She told Jesus to command Mary to help. “Tell her to help me!” (Luke 10:40 – NIV)

 

That was a bold statement.

 

Jesus, in His kind-hearted way told Martha that He would not do as she asked. Mary had chosen what was better. To sit at His feet and listen to His words.

 

The busyness of this life will draw us away from what is better. Especially at this time of year. But if we don’t nip it in the bud, we’ll miss out on the very best this season has to offer. Jesus.

 

I must admit that my above statements sound like I’m complaining. Maybe I am a little, but to be honest, serving and being hospitable is what I do. It’s what I’m made of. I thrive on being the “hostess with the mostess.”

 

But here’s the thing. When I’m busy in the kitchen am I building relationships? When I was busy at our staff Christmas party making sure all the food was in the right place and set just perfect, everyone else was mingling and engaged in conversation. I wasn’t. I believe I missed what was better.

 

It will be difficult for me to step out of that role. Perhaps that’s why Martha had difficulty. When it’s part of our make-up it’s difficult to be something else. But I believe it’s what Jesus wanted of Martha and what He wants of me. To choose what is better.

 

What is causing you to keep your distance from others? Is there something keeping you from choosing what is better? I pray that you will find a way to put it aside. I pray that you will fall at our Master’s feet and listen to what He has to say to you today. It will be worth it and nothing else is more important than that.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Gardening Club

I have been nominated to become an official member of a club. “It is no secret among your friends and neighbors that you are an outstanding gardener. As someone who is passionately devoted to your hobby, you’re exactly the kind of person our club is always looking for.”

 

Gardening ClubHere’s the problem I see with this statement. I kill plants.  I over water. I under water. I forget to water.

 

I believe to be a successful gardener there is even an element of knowing what you’re planting (like the name of the plant). I know very little about plants.

 

I also believe the gardener needs to know what each plant needs (like where to put certain plants, or whether they need fertilizer, or how much sun is required to produce the perfect plant). I know even less about such things.

 

It’s a good thing this gardening club doesn’t know me very well and that I chose not to join. I tossed this piece in the trash with the other junk mail.

 

I know of Another who is looking for people. But this Someone knows exactly who He is looking for and He has each one pegged for who they really are.

 

This Someone is Jesus and He is looking for the lost of this world (Luke 19:10). Jesus is searching for those who need the Great Physician (Matthew 9:11-13). Jesus is searching for those who are sinners (Mark 2:17).

 

Yes, Jesus has us pegged correctly.

 

But it’s what He has to offer that makes His searching even more incredible. Jesus came to give us life (John 10:10). Jesus came to offer eternal life (John 3:16). Jesus came to bring us out of darkness (John 8:12; 12:46). Jesus offers eternal bread and water (John 6:35; 51). Jesus searches for those who direction (John 14:6). Jesus allows access to the Father (John 14:6). Jesus longs to give us forgiveness of sin (Mark 11:25). Jesus willingly offers us life (John 11:25). Jesus lovingly gave His life so that we might be saved (John 10:9).

 

Don’t believe this is an exhaustive list. Jesus longs to give exactly what is needed for each person…kind of like knowing the name of a plant and understanding what is needed for that plant to thrive.

 

If there is anything else that you believe you might need, all you need to do is ask. Jesus will provide.

 

At times I long to be a great plant grower. Then at other times I know I don’t have the time to do the work to be that gardener. So it’s best to leave the gardening to the true gardeners in my life.

 

My spiritual life is in good hands as well. The hands of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He is doing the work in my life and I am a well-watered garden (Isaiah 58:11). Remember the Father is the gardener and He is doing the pruning (John 15:1-17).

 

And gardening club? I believe I must decline your offer.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Spiritual Goals

It’s hard to believe that we are only 27 days until the New Year. It seems like it was just yesterday I was talking about the beginning of 2013. Where does the time go?

 

unnamedIn the past, I’ve worked on resolutions. I created them. I’ve worked at them for a bit. Then I’ve forgotten them. Oh maybe some of them I continued to work on, but for the most part, resolutions haven’t had the impact on me that they should have.

 

This year however, we are working on goals at work. We have to come up with five goals to work on between January 1 and Easter. After reading an article on goal-making (and keeping), we were given the task to write our goals.

 

Here are some of the guidelines.

 

Goals:

Are few in number

Are action-oriented

Are measureable

Are attainable

Are time-bound

Are prioritized

 

I wrote down five goals. Vague at first, but then I began working through each one and determined the logistics of each goal. I even found a worksheet to help with making each goal fit into the guidelines above.

 

But here’s the thing. The goals I’ve chosen for this coming New Year must be done. My boss will ask me if they are done. I won’t be able to drop them when they get too difficult. I won’t be able to forget them when they aren’t at the foremost in my mind. I won’t be able to just not do them.

 

I’m being held accountable for attaining my goals.

 

I believe it’s no different for our spiritual life. I have set goals for myself spiritually and have allowed those goals to go unattained for the same reasons above. But I must realize that I am accountable for my spiritual goals as well.

 

Take a look at Romans 14:10b-12 (NIV). “For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat…So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.”

 

On that day when I stand before my God and give an account of what I’ve done in my life, what excuse will I give for not accomplishing my spiritual goals? I forgot? I lost interest? They were too hard?

 

I somehow am not sure God will give me a pass on not accomplishing my spiritual goals.

 

So as I look forward to the New Year, I have decided to set spiritual goals for myself. At this moment, I don’t know what they will be, but I have 27 days to prepare them just as I am at work.

 

I don’t know if you set New Year’s resolutions for yourself, but if you do, perhaps you might consider setting a few spiritual resolutions as well.

 

Perhaps you might commit to reading one chapter of the Bible each day. This would be especially good if you read God’s Word sporadically.

 

Perhaps you might commit to writing a daily prayer in a journal. A good goal if you don’t speak with God on a daily basis.

 

Perhaps you might commit to consistent giving to your local church. If you haven’t tithed, this would be a good way to start.

 

Perhaps you might commit to joining a small group or Bible study. Or what about opening your heart to go on a short-term mission trip. Or speak to your neighbor about going to church with you.

 

They can be small or they can be big. Remember they must be attainable. And also remember you will be held accountable for them.

 

What I do know about spiritual resolutions is that when I make them, God will give me the resources, the energy, the strength and the desire to complete them. God’s Holy Spirit within me is there to help me through each day.

 

I believe we started working on our goals at work three weeks ago so that we wouldn’t take them lightly. So that we would take the time to really focus on what we need to do in the work place and then figure out how to do it.

 

I believe the same can be said of our spiritual goals. It’s not too early to begin thinking of where I want to be at this time next year. It’s not too early to consider the important things God has in store for me for next year. It’s not too early to allow God’s Spirit to work on me so that I can be a better woman of God in the year 2014.

 

What are your goals?

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Repeat

You will have to excuse me this morning. I had a very long day at work yesterday and this morning my brain is a little foggy. So I am going to share an old blog post that I’m sure you will enjoy.

 

99 Seconds with Michael was a fun blog post to write and I enjoyed reading again myself.

 

99 Seconds with Michael

 

As a NASCAR fan, it was thrilling to find out that one lucky fan was going to be chosen to have a 99 second conversation with my favorite NASCAR driver, Michael Waltrip.

 

???????????????????????????????My mind began to wonder about what I might talk to Michael about. 99 seconds isn’t a long time and if I were to win, I was worried that I’d ramble and miss the opportunity to have a real conversation with him. My decision was that I’d introduce myself and tell him why I was his fan and let him know what a privilege it was to be talking to him. Then I’d let him talk. He is so witty and his southern drawl is a pleasure to listen to. I knew it would go quickly, so I’d make the most of the time and simply enjoy the moment.

 

I didn’t win that contest and was saddened that I wouldn’t be able to have a conversation with him, but in the whole scheme of things, it really is okay.

 

I’ve been able to enjoy Michael on many occasions in his role as a NASCAR driver, owner, and commentator. I’ve been able to go to a few races at Daytona International Speedway and even enjoy the thrill of seeing my favorite driver win a race. My dream of speaking with him directly will probably never come true, but there was an opportunity and I certainly did my best to make it happen.

 

99 seconds. That hardly seems like any time at all. What if I only had 99 seconds to speak to my husband or my children or to God? What meaningful conversation could be had in that short time?

 

We know that it would be impossible for anything to really come of a 99 second conversation. We’d never have the opportunity to share in deep, meaningful dialogue. We’d never have a chance to give friendship to the lonely, comfort to the grieving, and love to the untrusting. It might even be a challenge to sum up God’s grace and forgiveness in 99 seconds!

 

So why is it that that is exactly what we do with God? Quickie prayers, maybe lasting 99 seconds. And what do those prayers consist of? Probably requests that we’d like answered. And probably one-sided. Our side.

 

I don’t know about you, but my desire is to have meaningful conversations with my God. Conversations where I can praise Him for who He is and for what He has done in my life. A channel of communication where I can tell Him all of my worries and troubles. A dialogue where He can assure me that everything will be alright because He is with me.

 

I’ve come up with my own acronym for prayer. You’ve seen them out there, but I wanted one that would fit into this writing. WORTH. What is our time with God worth? How can I make this time with Him meaningful? By following this plan, you’ll spend quality time with God and enjoy the blessings.

 

W – worship God for who He is and what He’s done in your life

O – observe what God is teaching you in the moment

R – repent of the times you’ve ignored God or spent little time with Him

T – tell Him what is on your mind…share your requests

H – humble yourself to His leading

 

My dear friend, God desires a real relationship with you. His desire is for you to approach His Throne, sit a while, and have a chat. A meaningful conversation. Don’t rush it. He has all the time in the world for you!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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