A Bit Heavy

Yesterday morning as I was setting out for work, I picked up my bag that has gone with me on many adventures. It seemed heavy, so I thought I’d clean it out before I headed out the door.

 

To my surprise, there were a number of pairs of shoes in that bag. Each shoe that dropped to the floor meant a lighter load to carry. I left all of those shoes at home.

 

With my plantar fasciitis, I switch out my shoes all day long. And depending on what I’m doing determines which shoes I wear. If I have to make several trips up and down the stairs, I wear shoes with backs to keep them on my feet. If I’m walking through the building a lot, I wear a different shoe. If I know I’ll be standing, still another shoe. So you see how important it is to have the choices.

 

But all of these needs makes for a very heavy bag and there comes a time when a lighter load is more important than anything else. Sometimes it is important to assess the situation and determine what can be eliminated. Sometimes it just makes sense to weed out the things that cause burdens.

 

So am I talking about shoes or something else here? I think both.

 

I personally know that I bring burdens upon myself that are not necessary. They may not seem so burdensome at the time, but after carrying that burden for a while, it can weigh me down.

 

I also personally know that there are burdens placed upon me by others that I may or may not have any control over. But again, after carrying the burden, I become weary from the load.

 

And then, there are the unforeseen burdens that just seem to show up on my doorstep (like the feral kittens in my backyard). The need to help is greater than the load that accompanies the burden. But after time, it becomes more difficult to see the outcome because of the weight of the burden.

 

We all carry burdens. It’s part of life. But it’s how we react, respond and eliminate the burdens that makes the difference.

 

So let’s take a look at what the Bible says about burdens and how we are to handle them. I pray that by the end of your day, you too will have the weight of your burdens lifted.

 

King David praised God for His willingness to carry our burdens. “Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens.” (Psalm 68:19 – NIV) God wants to help us along the way. He is willing to carry our burdens. Each day as we give our burdens over to Him, God will bear them for us. But let’s not forget to praise God for what He is doing in our lives.

 

As King David shared the account of Israel coming out of Egypt, he shares God’s words and message with his readers. “I (God) removed the burden from their shoulders; their hands were set free from the basket. In your distress you called and I rescued you, I answered you out of a thundercloud; I tested you at the waters of Meribah.” (Psalm 81:6-7 – NIV) We too have the opportunity to cry out to God. We don’t have to carry these burdens alone. He will rescue. He will answer. He will remove the burden as we call out to Him.

 

Jesus tells us that if we are carrying a burden to great to bear, He wants us to come to Him. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30 – NIV) Not only can we find rest in Jesus, but our burden becomes light. This may be the most encouraging passage for burden carriers!

 

The Apostle Paul encouraged his Galatian readers to share their burdens with one another. “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2 – NIV) Christ’s law is to love one another. When we assist our fellow Christians with their burdens, we are loving as Jesus would.

 

And on another note, Paul mentioned an important element to the Hebrew believers in Hebrews 13:17 (NIV) that we should consider. “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.” Are you a burden to your church leaders? Are you a complainer? Do you only offer criticism?  If so, you may be creating a burden that isn’t necessary for your leaders. Perhaps this is something we all need to look at to see if we need an attitude adjustment.

 

There is no need to carry the burdens of this world by ourselves. God, Jesus and fellow Christians are there to help along the way. But we must do two things. One, we must ask for help. Two, we must release the burden. By doing so, we will find rest. “Take your burden to the Lord and leave it there.”[i]

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

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[i] “Leave it There,” Charles A. Tindley, 1916.

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All is Calm

I’ve recently found a recipe on Pinterest for something to help with the calming of children. It’s called a calming jar and it is to be used during time out or any time a child need to focus their attention on something other than the situation at hand.

 

I wonder how this might work on adults? Put one of these jars into the hands of someone who is angry or disgruntled and just maybe, their attitude might change? It might be worth a try in some instances.

 

But for me, I know where my calm comes from. It’s not from a jar. It’s not from myself (I know for a fact that I can get pretty worked up). It can’t be bought. It isn’t found in a location. My calm and my peace comes from God and His Holy Spirit who lives within me.

 

I’ve been on several interviews over the past three years and finally decided to be honest when asked the question, “How do you deal with a difficult customer/patient/client?” I can almost guarantee my response was the reason I wasn’t chosen for the job interviewing for.

 

So you’re probably asking, “What did you say?” Well, let me tell you.

 

First, I told them I would pray. Ask God to be in the middle of the situation and direct my words and my actions.

 

Second, I told them I would rely on the Holy Spirit and allow Him to lead and guide me through the situation.

 

I must be honest, this method doesn’t work 100% of the time. It only works when I am open to the God and His Spirit to work in me. There are occasions when I miss the opportunity and the old me shows up instead of the God-working-in-me me.

 

So my response would still be the same if I were to go on an interview today. However, I must be willing to initiate this plan in order for it to work correctly.

 

I believe that God’s Spirit has a great effect on me and my emotions. When I allow Him to work through me, it is amazing what He can accomplish. I am calm. I am at peace. I am open to opportunities. I am a reflection of Him.

 

When I don’t allow the Holy Spirit to work through me, I am frenzied. I am uncertain. I am in turmoil. I am a reflection of me.

 

So today, as we head out into this world, let’s be mindful of how we act. Let’s be prepared to ask God’s Spirit to step in when necessary. Let’s be focused on what God wants us to do instead of what we want to do. Let’s use God’s Spirit. He is much more effective than a calming jar!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

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Mom and I were visiting several years ago and we stopped by one of our favorite restaurants for lunch. I encountered several emotions the moment she ordered off the “seniors” menu. I was surprised. I was saddened. I was adamant that she wasn’t old enough to do so. However, she was. Somewhere along the line, my mom aged without my notice. Which in turn meant that I also aged.

 

As I approach that “senior” age, I am beginning to understand the value of a “senior” menu. Most of the time I cannot finish the amount of food brought to me in a restaurant. A “senior’s” portion would certainly help in that area.

 

There is also the monetary value. As my husband continues to approach retirement age, we realize the importance of saving…even if it is a little bit with a “senior” discount. We always ask if there is a discount and at what age discounts can be applied.

 

As I grow older, my body isn’t as cooperative as it used to be. Granted, I’m overweight, I have plantar fasciitis, and I have arthritis in several joints, but still, nothing seems to work as it once did. And it can be very frustrating.

 

Take yesterday for example. I was asked to help with the décor for our Vacation Bible School. As I was placing gaff tape all over the floor of the church lobby, I thought how sore I would be this morning. On my knees. Up and down. Bending in places my body doesn’t typically bend. It was inevitable. I would feel the strain this morning.

 

But in all reality, it isn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Yes, I know I moved more yesterday than I had in a while, but it is good for me. I need to be pushed in order to gain flexibility and strength.

 

My spiritual life is the same. When I am pushed to give God just a little more, the outcome is amazing.

 

After finishing the Bible study “Follow Me,” by Randy Sprinkle, I was pushed just a bit more in my prayer experiences with God.

 

There was a guest speaker at church this past weekend and he encouraged us to spend just a little more time in God’s Word each day. His suggestion was to read God’s Word just 10% of the down time in your day. I was pushed to make an effort to do so.

 

You see, sometimes we get lazy in our spiritual life just as we do in our physical life. And if someone or something isn’t there to tell us otherwise, we’ll just keep going down the same path and eventually won’t be doing anything to better ourselves spiritually.

 

And let me tell you, God doesn’t put a retirement age on spiritual growth. He expects us to continue to grow until the day we are united with Him forever (Luke 2:25-35 – Simeon and Luke 2:36-28 – Anna).

 

So today, as the young children of our community come to our version of Vacation Bible School, they will be urged to grow spiritually. They are the future generation of LifeBridge Christian Church and we need to share the importance of spiritual development with them.

 

What are you doing to grow spiritually? What steps have you put into place to assure your discipline in these areas? How often do you pull out your Bible to read God’s precious Words? Have you spent time with God this morning in prayer?

 

My summer will be filled with Bible study, writing this blog and writing a Bible study for the fall. I will be busy. I will be filled with joy. I will be growing. Being with God and growing in His ways are better than life.

 

David understood this and he wrote about it in Psalm 63. Take a look at what he has to say.

 

“O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water.

 

“I have seen you in the sanctuary and beheld your power and your glory.

 

“Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you.

 

“I will praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will lift up my hands.

 

“My soul will be satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise you.

 

“On my bed I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night.

 

“Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings.

 

“My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me.” (Psalm 63:1-8 – NIV)

 

Are you with me? Are you ready to be pushed just a bit? If so, please let me know. I’d love to hear from you. If you want to leave a comment, please click here.

 

Ready? Set? Grow!

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

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Take Courage

On some days while sitting outside at my house, you’ll hear and then see a stunt pilot. The plane is close enough to see that he or she is flying upside down or sideways, performing barrel rolls, stalling the plane’s engine, or perhaps doing loops.

 

Each time I hear the plane, I stop whatever I’m doing and simply watch the expertise of this pilot in the sky. Sometimes the pilot will linger for 20 minutes or longer. Other times it’s a quick five minute show. Regardless of its length, the display is a welcome sight.

 

Like this stunt pilot, we are encouraged as Christians to live courageous lives.

 

We see in the Old Testament God’s heartening words to leaders of Israel. Over and over, God spoke these words. “Be strong and courageous.” Here is a list of where this phrase can be found. Deuteronomy 31:16, 31:7, 31:23; Joshua 1:7, 1:9, 1:18, 10:25; 1 Chronicles 22:13, 28:20; 2 Chronicles 32:7.

 

Jesus spoke similar words on one occasion. The disciples had headed to the other side of the Sea of Galilee when a storm picked up. And in the midst of water and wind, Jesus walked toward the boat.

 

The disciples thought Him to be a ghost, but Jesus then spoke. “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.” (Matthew 14:27; Mark 6:50 – NIV).

 

I believe it might have been difficult to take courage in that moment, but Jesus wanted the disciples to have great faith that would pull them toward courage. After all, these men would need a deep courage before the end of their lives.

 

Courage is mentioned several other times in the New Testament.

 

Jesus appeared to the Apostle Paul in Acts 23:11 (NIV). Jesus said, “Take courage! As you have testified about me in Jerusalem, so you must testify in Rome.”

 

Likewise, Paul encouraged others to be courageous. In 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 (NIV), Paul tells the Corinthian Church to, “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. Do everything in love.”

 

Paul also encouraged the Philippians Christians with these words. “I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.” (Philippians 1:20 – NIV)

 

The author of the book of Hebrews says to hold on to our courage. “But Christ is faithful as a son over God’s house. And we are his house, if we hold on to our courage and the hope of which we boast.” (Hebrews 3:6 – NIV)

 

In each of these passages, the recipient was called to an action. The action of being courageous. The ability to face any situation without fear.

 

These people were courageous. With God on their side, they had the ability to face their appointed tasks with undeniable courage.

 

You and I may not face great battles, raging storms, or persecution, but there are times where we must draw on this same courage.

 

Courage may simply be placing our trust into God’s hands and believing that He will bring us through whatever situation we might face. Maybe that is too simple, but I find that I can be more courageous if I live by these guidelines.

 

I don’t know who this pilot is and really don’t know how to find out. There are several small airstrips near my home and this pilot could be from any of them. I wish I could thank this pilot for the enjoyment I have received through the years. But until then, this is my “thank you.” Be strong and courageous. I think of you fondly.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

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Change Can Be So Difficult

Once again we have come to the Lord’s Day. It’s Sunday morning and by the time you read this, I will be at work, brewing coffee and selling Bibles (I have such a wonderful job!).

 

So I’m sharing a piece about the moving of furniture in my home. Enjoy!

 

It’s Just a Couch

 

As part of my office makeover, I wanted to add a couch for comfort, but also to create another bedroom in our home on the main floor. A couch in our family room was a hide-a-bed, so this was the perfect choice to move to my office. It also meant that we got to buy a new couch for that room.

 

We chose the perfect couch, moved the old couch into my office and then waited. As I waited for the new couch, my mind moved the furniture in the family room around. It was only natural then that my body had to follow. I moved the furniture.

 

We sat in the family room in this new configuration. It was unusual. It was strange. It was foreign. The more I sat there, the more I disliked this new look. Really disliked it. I was surprised! I am usually a flexible, roll-with-the-punches kind of gal. But not when it came to my family room layout.

 

Before a half hour passed, I knew what needed to be done. In a matter of minutes, I flipped all the furniture around again to where it belonged.

 

Oh how I wanted the new look to work. But my old ways would not allow for that. I wanted the room to be the way it always was. No change.

 

If I were to view my spiritual life in this same way, I would become stagnant. I would not be following God’s instruction for my life. His plan clearly includes change, new creation, transformation, taking off the old, putting on the new, and spiritual maturity.

 

Change

In Matthew 18:3, Jesus tells the group that change must occur. That change must include trust and great faith in what God is able to do. “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Without change, the kingdom of heaven is a far off dream.

 

New Creation

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17) With Christ, we become new. A new creation. He created us. He redeemed us. He fulfills the re-creation of us through His sacrifice.

 

Transformation

Paul shares with the Corinth church that being transformed into Jesus’ likeness is part of the process. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” Transformation is accompanied by radiance that is from the Lord.

 

Taking Off the Old, Putting On the New

Ephesians 4:22-24 tells us that we must take off our old lifestyle and put on a new lifestyle. Not just at the moment of salvation, but for always. “You were taught with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by it is deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”

 

Spiritual Maturity

“So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.” (Colossians 2:6-8) We move toward spiritual maturity when we live in Christ and are rooted and built up in Christ. Our faith is strengthened so that we are less susceptible of being deceived by false teachings.

 

We must not become stagnant in our spiritual lives. We must continue to learn, study, and apply all that God’s Word has to say to us. We must also share our story with others. Who have you shared your change of heart with?

 

The new couch looks perfect where the old couch used to live. The old couch adds great warmth to my office. Now life is as it should be…in the realm of couches.

 

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

 

Donna

 

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