The DD Word

Duncan Donuts. The two words together can bring sheer joy to my life. Living in Colorado has meant giving up certain food items that I have loved my entire life. Duncan Donuts is one of them. They simply didn’t exist in this part of the country…until now.

My husband told me recently that Duncan Donuts was planning to expand and there would be one opening in a nearby town. One that I visit frequently. My dream of getting those donuts had become a reality.
My first thought was, “YEAH!” My second thought was remembering the summer between my sophomore and junior years of college. I was working at a local department store in Upstate New York. I passed by a Duncan Donut shop on my way to work and on my way home from work.
Early in the summer, I stopped on my way home and picked up a dozen. They were gone before I went to work the next time; so once again, I stopped by on my way home and picked up another dozen. That was all it took. I was stopping nearly every day to get a dozen donuts.
By the end of the summer, I was nearly 30 pounds heavier. It was donut weight. I looked like a donut. Not only did I look heavier, but I felt horrible! I was sluggish. There was no motivation to move at all. I had made a huge mistake through these three months.
Back at college, I worked hard to get the weight off. I quit eating donuts and ate the food that was available. It wasn’t long before I was back to my “ideal” weight and feeling much better. PHEW!
I have been leading a Bible study called, “Made to Crave.” If you’ve never seen or heard about it before, I would encourage you to read the book. It is life-changing. More so than any study I’ve done in the past.
The concept is that God created us to crave. He wants us to crave. But He wants us to crave Him. Not food (or anything else you want to put in here…like money, success, love, etc.). In this study, Lysa TerKeurst leads the reader to multiple passages of Scripture that talk about food. It is quite eye opening.
The one that has had a huge impact on me is from Philippians 3:15-21. This is right after the section when Paul talks about pressing on…forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead. That in itself is a great weight loss motivator, but then Paul says something in verses 18-20.
“For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is their shame. Their mind is on earthy things. But our citizenship is in heaven.”
“When the apostle Paul says, ‘their god is their stomach,’ he means that food can become so consuming that people find themselves ruled by it…if we find that certain foods are impossible to walk away from—we can’t or won’t deny ourselves an unhealthy choice in order to make a healthier choice—then it’s a clue we are being ruled by this food on some level. Being ruled by something other than God diminishes our commitment and will make us feel increasingly distant from him.”[i]
Unfortunately, I’ve allowed my stomach to be my god for years. I have gone through my life without believing it was an issue, but in reality, it is one thing that has separated me from God.
I now know that only through the power of Christ and a daily dependence on God, am I able to stop craving all the foods that have kept my mind off of the things above. I am not where I want to be, but am “pressing on” to reach that goal.
Now that I am working on craving God more than food (or anything else), I don’t think I will even step foot in the new Duncan Donut shop. A change of mind and attitude has made all the difference in the world…physically and spiritually.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna


[i] Lysa TerKeurst, Made to Crave (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2010),65-66
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Building a Doll House: Rooms of the House – Chapter 4

NOTE: If you missed Chapters 1, 2, and 3 of Building a Doll House, you can find it in the column under “blog archive” to the right.
The doll house plans were coming along splendidly! The pieces were organized, the work station was set up in the loft, and all the tools were gathered together. The foundation had been put together and ready for the load it was to take on.
The first step for me was to make choices for each room. I spent hours looking for the perfect verses of Scripture to write on the walls and floors of this house. Finally, they were chosen and ready to start writing. These are the verses chosen for the specific locations.
Kitchen
“She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.” (Proverbs 31:15)
Dining Room
“Jesus said to them, ‘Come and have breakfast.’” (John 21:12a)
Living Room
“Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.” (Titus 2:4-5)
Little Girl’s Room
“…for He grants sleep to those He loves.” (Psalm 127:2b)
Little Boy’s Room
“I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.”(Psalm 4:8)
Parent’s Room
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
Nursery
Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from Him.” (Psalm 62:5)
Bathroom
“I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean…” (Ezekiel 36:25a )
Main Floor
“’For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you,’ declares the Lord, ‘and will bring you back from captivity. I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you, declares the Lord, and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.’”(Jeremiah 29:11-14)
Bottom of House
“Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in vain.” (Psalm 127:1a)
Porch
“Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” (Deuteronomy 6:7)
Roof
“They are led in with joy and gladness; they enter the palace of the queen (king).” (Psalm 45:15)
 
During this time, God taught me that His Word is still relevant in our world today. There are so many things to learn each day by getting into the Bible. I also feel like I missed the opportunity to write these same verses on the walls of my current home. That makes me a little sad. But I also believe God would rather I live His Words, not just write them.
Someday, my great-grandchildren will see the words I chose for this precious house. My prayer is that they will know how essential this step was. That God’s Words will be as important to them as they are to me. May my future generations know they are thought of today, not just by Baba, but also by their heavenly Father.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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The Great American Pass Time

“Take me out to the ball game” can be heard around the country once again. Some may say it’s boring, but I like it. I enjoy the sounds of baseball. Bats hitting balls. Balls being caught in baseball gloves. The voice of umpires as they make calls. I don’t know, I just like it.

I’ve been a baseball fan, off and on, throughout my life. I recall watching the Cincinnati Reds with my Dad as a young teenager. I really enjoyed this activity with him. It was just one of many things I loved doing with my Dad.
I remember playing baseball in our back field with neighborhood friends as a young girl and teenager. Getting hit by a line drive baseball was not so fun, but still, it was a great way to spend a Saturday afternoon.

More recently, I went to a Spring Training Orioles baseball game with my dad, my son, and my nephew. We sat in the first row, just beside first base. It was awesome! We tried to watch for stray balls, but we missed one. My son, Philip, was hit in the stomach. It didn’t hurt him and he was able to keep the baseball, so it wasn’t as bad as it could have been.

My husband loves baseball. He comes from a Baseball Hall of Fame family (on both sides). So naturally, his office is covered with baseball memorabilia and we enjoy watching baseball together. We are anxious for the season to begin.
I’m sure you’re wondering how I’m going to bring this around to God. I could talk about the first mention of baseball in the Bible…you know “In the big inning…” But, no, that’s not where I’m heading.
I find some wisdom in keeping our eyes open. Watching out for what is coming our way. And God talks a lot about this in His Word. Let me point out a few.
  • Matthew 6:22 tells us that “The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light.”
  • Psalm 119:18 says, “Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law.”
  • And in Psalm 119:37 he says, “Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life according to your word.”
  • “But my eyes are fixed on you, O Sovereign Lord; in you I take refuge—do not give me over to death.” (Psalm 141:8)
  • John quotes Jesus in John 4:35. “Open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.”
  • Ephesians 4:18 says, “I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints.”
  • “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith…” (Hebrews 12)
These are just a few verses that teach us to keep our eyes open. To be aware of what’s going on around us and more importantly, what we are to be looking toward. Don’t get caught with your eyes shut. Don’t be looking the wrong direction.
If you are a baseball fan, you are as excited as I am that baseball is in full swing. If you’re not a baseball fan, I apologize for spending a whole day talking about it. Whatever the case, I pray that you will watch out for the stray balls of life and that God’s Word will give you insight on how to keep watch.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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Decision Time

Decisions. Making decisions can sometimes be difficult, especially when it is a one where it will make a major impact in your life. There have been times when I’ve made  decisions without consulting God. Somehow, most of those decisions were the right ones and something good came from it.
It’s only been in the past ten years or so that I have really sought God’s counsel on decision making. I think the difference that comes with seeking God during these times is the peace that comes with the decision. When God is in the middle of it, He gives us peace.
Several years, I was making a huge decision. I decided to take a day and spend it in the mountains chatting with God. I found a lovely spot. The scenery was amazing. The weather perfect. With Bible in hand, I sat on a bench, telling God all about the decision to be made.

I flipped to the concordance of my Bible to search for verses about mountains…I chose to read Micah 4:2. “Come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob. He will teach us his ways, so that we may walk in his paths.” It was a great verse to start with.
Allowing God to teach me something was a good step. Knowing that walking in His path would be the result was even better. I knew I needed Him to point me down the right path.
Then I read the entire chapter of Micah 4. It’s interesting that the section starting in verse 6 is titled, “The Lord’s Plan.” Could I possibly have found a better passage to read during this decision making excursion? I don’t think so. And I also don’t think it was by accident that I turned to this passage.
There were several verses that led me to believe that my decision was an easy one. Yes, there would be some major changes in my life, but I knew God was leading me in that direction.
There is one other verse in this chapter that I have held on to throughout these past few years. Micah 4:10b – “…for now you must leave the city to camp in the open field. You will go to Babylon; there you will be rescued. There the Lord will redeem you out of the hand of your enemies.”
 This verse tells me that I must get out of my comfort zone to share the Gospel with anyone and everyone who will listen. It may even be that I am to leave the security that I am so accustomed to. But for certain, the Lord will be with me through it all.
Maybe this particular chapter will mean nothing to you. Maybe it’s just a chapter in the Old Testament that has no relevance in your life. For me, it was a turning point. A time when I asked God and He answered me. I do believe I can still repeat Micah 4:2. Will you join me? Are you willing to learn what He has to teach?
“Come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob. He will teach us his ways, so that we may walk in his paths.”
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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Christmas in March

Last weekend, Joy and Percy spent the night with us. I was tired. I had returned home from Florida and lost two hours to travel. It was the Saturday to lose an hour of sleep. I babysat the two grand kids on Saturday. But when Joy called and asked if she and Percy could spend the night, well, it didn’t matter how tired I was. These two were going to stay at Baba’s.
(I haven’t explained the “Baba” thing. When Bethany was pregnant with Joy, Bethany  wanted each of Joy’s grandparents to have a special name. One that would clearly say, “This is my grandma or grandpa.” My husband’s family is from Russia, and he called his grandparents Baba and Gido, so these are the “Americanized” names we chose for our grandchildren.)
On the trip to take the grand kids home last weekend, Joy spoke up from her car seat. “Baba, do you have any Christmas music? Mommy can’t find ours.” My heart melted. She wanted to listen to Christmas music. In March! A girl after my own heart. “Of course!” I said. “I always have Christmas music in my car.”
I scrolled through the CD’s that I had and decided the most “fun” CD was Michael Bublé’s newest Christmas album. And, by the way, if you’re looking for some new Christmas music, I highly recommend this one. It is so much fun…and his voice is divine.
As we listened to Michael croon to “Santa Claus is Coming to Town,” “Jingle Bells” and “Holly Jolly Christmas,” Joy was singing right along with him. But then, he sang her favorite song, “Feliz Navidad.” Oh how she enjoyed that one.
When I got back into the car after dropping off the kids, I restarted the CD and listened to it all the way home. There’s just something about Christmas music that brings joy to my soul. Rest to my weary body. Peace to my restless way of life.
For me, however, Christmas music isn’t the only way I am restored. More importantly, it isn’t my first “go to” to be restored. I know when I need restoration; I go to my heavenly Father. It is only in His arms that find real joy, real rest, and real peace.
Joy
Nehemiah gives such encouragement in chapter 8, verse 10. He says, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” When nothing else will do, God’s joy will give us the strength we need.
The book of Psalm says a lot about joy, but these two verses tell us of the joy God gives. “The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.”(Psalm 126:3) “Your statutes are my heritage forever; they are the joy of my heart.”(Psalm 119:111)
The New Testament is also filled with verses on joy. These are just a couple. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13) “Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” (1 Peter 1:8-9)
Peace
Jesus states in John 14:27, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” Another of God’s glorious gifts he has given. His peace!
He also says, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) It is only by being in Christ will we find true peace.
Paul tells us that Jesus is our peace in Ephesians 2:11. Through this “peace,” all barriers can be broken down. There is unity. Hostility is banished. Now that is real peace.
Rest
“Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also will rest secure.” (Psalm 16:9) There is security in rest, but only when God is the center of that rest.
Psalm 62:5 also tells us that rest is accompanied by hope. “Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him.”
“A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest.” (Proverbs 16:10) I love this little verse…should almost be a nursery rhyme.
And of course, Jesus’ words to us when we just can’t seem to take one more step. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
These are just a few of the ways God brings restoration to our lives and souls. With the help of the Holy Spirit, we can put these words into action. Then we will know that our joy, peace and rest come from God.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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