It’s Just A Couch

As part of my office makeover, I wanted to add a couch for comfort, but also to create another bedroom in our home on the main floor. A couch in our family room was a hide-a-bed, so this was the perfect choice to move to my office. It also meant that we got to buy a new couch for that room.
We chose the perfect couch, moved the old couch into my office and then waited. As I waited for the new couch, my mind moved the furniture in the family room around. It was only natural then that my body had to follow. I moved the furniture.
We sat in the family room in this new configuration. It was unusual. It was strange. It was foreign. The more I sat there, the more I disliked this new look. Really disliked it. I was surprised! I am usually a flexible, roll-with-the-punches kind of gal. But not when it came to my family room layout.
Before a half hour passed, I knew what needed to be done. In a matter of minutes, I flipped all the furniture around again to where it belonged.
Oh how I wanted the new look to work. But my old ways would not allow for that. I wanted the room to be the way it always was. No change.
If I view my spiritual life in this same way, I would become stagnant. I would not be following God’s instruction for my life. His plan clearly includes change, new creation, transformation, taking off the old, putting on the new, and spiritual maturity.
Change
In Matthew 18:3, Jesus tells the group that change must occur. That change must include trust and great faith in what God is able to do. “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Without change, the kingdom of heaven is a far off dream.
New Creation
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17) With Christ, we become new. A new creation. He created us. He redeemed us. He fulfills the re-creation of us through His sacrifice.
Transformation
Paul shares with the Corinth church that being transformed into Jesus’ likeness is part of the process. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” Transformation is accompanied by radiance that is from the Lord.
Taking Off the Old, Putting On the New
Ephesians 4:22-24 tells us that we must take off our old lifestyle and put on a new lifestyle. Not just at the moment of salvation, but for always. “You were taught with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by it is deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
Spiritual Maturity
“So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.” (Colossians 2:6-8) We move toward spiritual maturity when we live in Christ and are rooted and built up in Christ. Our faith is strengthened so that we are less susceptible of being deceived by false teachings.
We must not become stagnant in our spiritual lives. We must continue to learn, study, and apply all that God’s Word has to say to us. We must also share our story with others. Who have you shared your change of heart with?
The new couch looks perfect where the old couch used to live. The old couch adds great warmth to my office. Now life is as it should be…in the realm of couches.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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The Elevator Incident

Last week, my daughter Bethany took my granddaughter Joy to a local museum. Two of her little friends from preschool and their mom joined them. It was a great day and they enjoyed it (as usual when they are together).

The day passed without incident until it was time to head to the upper level of the museum.

They headed to the elevator and somehow, the kids got onto the elevator without the moms. And yes, the doors shut with the kids inside.
Bethany said there was silence for approximately three seconds, and then screaming. From the inside of the elevator. They realized what they had done.
Bethany explained to Joy where the “open door” button should be. Of course, there was no writing on that button. It was the universal symbol for “open door,” but Bethany was able to tell Joy to push that button.
But while Bethany was talking with Joy, one of the kids pressed the “emergency” button, so now from the elevator, crying children and a phone ringing could be heard.
Finally, Joy got the button pressed and the doors opened. Immediately, the trio ran into their mother’s arms. Reunited, the children settled down, but I am pretty sure they will not be running ahead for a while.
There is nothing like being in the arms of someone who loves you. There is such comfort, peace, security, and pleasure in those moments. I know exactly how these children felt when their mother’s embraced them.
I enjoy feeling God’s arms around me too. Knowing that He is there to protect and comfort me just when I need it most is soothing.
Isaiah 40:11 blesses us with comforting words. “He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and he carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.” He gathers. He carries them close to His heart. He gently leads. What a tender Father we have.
Not only is God tender, but we also can know His power. “The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. He will drive out your enemy before you, saying ‘Destroy him!’” (Deuteronomy 33:27) God is there to protect you against your enemies. Completely!
God also desires to pass that strength on to us. Psalm 18:32 says, “It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect.” His strength is what gets me through most days. I’m so thankful to have this available to me.

Throughout high school, my best friend Becky, her mother Dodie, and I would sing as a trio. Sometimes in public, but mostly around the piano in their home. One of our favorite songs was “Sheltered in the Arms of God” by Dottie Rambo.
I feel the touch of hands so kind and tender.
They’re leading me in the paths that I must trod.
I’ll have no fear for Jesus walks beside me
For I’m sheltered in the arms of God.
Soon I shall hear the call from heaven’s portals
Come home my child,
It’s the last mile you must trod
I’ll fall asleep and wake in God’s sweet heaven
For I’m sheltered in the arms of God.

Chorus:
So let the storms rage high,
The dark clouds rise,
They won’t worry me;
For I’m sheltered safe within the arms of God.
He walks with me,
And naught of earth shall harm me,
For I’m sheltered in the arms of God.[i]
Life is so much easier within the arms of our heavenly Father. Regardless of your struggle today, run into His arms. There you will find all that you’ve been looking for.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
In loving memory of Becky…keep singing my friend.


[i] Sheltered in the Arms of God, Dottie Rambo and Jim Davis, copyright 1969 by PEERMUSIC LTD
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Parenting!

A couple of years ago, while writing a Bible study, it was my task to write the lesson on parenting. I struggled with it until I realized that I needed to look at parenting from God’s view. How does God parent us?  I found peace from that point on. Here are some of the things I learned.



What would your definition of parenting include? If you’re like me, it might include joy, heartache, laughter, disappointment, amazement, emotional, fear, and the list could go on.
I once read this definition of parenting. “Raising children is like being pecked to death by a chicken.” (Anonymous) Now that is discouraging!
So what can we learn from God as a parent?
How to Love
1 John 3:1 tells us that we are called children of God and that God has lavished His love upon us. This love is abundant, generous, and extravagant.
In Ephesians 2:4-5, we see what God did for us because of His great love. “Because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.”
Zephaniah 3:17 is such a glorious passage. “The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.” God delights in you!
Knowing and believing that God loves you unconditionally is a freeing experience. Do you believe it?
How to Forgive
Read through these passages of Scripture to see how God forgive us.
Ephesians 4:32 “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Isaiah 43:25 “I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more.”
Psalm 103:12 “As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.”
Daniel 9:9 “The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him.”
Psalm 51:1 “Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions.”
God’s forgiveness is so amazing and at times unfathomable! But these verses show us, when we’re forgiven, it’s done. It’s forgotten.
How to Discipline
Hebrews 12:4-11 teaches us about God’s discipline. Clearly, we struggle with sin and we should not “make light of the Lord’s discipline” or “lose heart when he rebukes us.” “Because, the Lord disciplines those he loves and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.”
The reason? For our good. So that we might share in His holiness and produce a harvest of righteousness and peace.
Discipline is hard to accept and dish out, but clearly God disciplines out of love so that we might be filled with His characteristics.
For further study on this topic, check out Deuteronomy 8:1-5 and 1 Corinthians 11:32.
How to Instruct
Read through these passages to see how God instructs us.
Isaiah 28:26 “His God instructs him and teaches him the right way.”
Titus 2:11-12 “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say, ‘no’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.”
Psalm 32:8 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you and watch over you.”
Deuteronomy 4:9 “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and their children after them.”
God’s instruction manual has answers for all of our problems. The more we read it, the more understanding we’ll have.
How to Give
Matthew 7:7-11 is a familiar passage. Jesus shows just how good the Father is at giving. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”
If we read Philippians 4:9, we see that our heavenly Father is very rich! He will meet all of our needs.
According to James 1:17, God’s gifts are good and perfect.
And God loved us so much, that He gave us “His only Son.” Now that is a generous Giver.
We are lavished with gifts from our Father. Take a moment to write down some of the gifts God has given you. Thank Him for those gifts.
How to Protect
In 2 Timothy 4:17-18, Paul shares how God protected him. God stood by his side, gave him strength, delivered him, rescued him, brought him to safety, delivered him from evil attacks, and would one day bring him safely to the heavenly kingdom.
Psalm 121:3-8 assures me that God will not let my foot slip. Even when my footing is unsure. The word “watches” is mentioned five times in these few verses. God is there to protect me in ways I never even thought of. Now that’s protection!
We all need protection. Perhaps that is why super heroes are so popular. Someone who will protect us against the evils of this world. Someone who is willing to stand between you and danger. God is that someone. God’s protection is greater than any you’ve ever known.
These are just a few ideas I’ve had on God as my parent. I pray that there is something among these thoughts that will help you with your day. I thank God that He is my Father and that He is the perfect parent.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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Where Are Your Eyes?

This week my daughter had a mishap with her vehicle. She took her eyes off the road for just a few moments and she veered to the right. Her tires hit the loose gravel; she started to skid and then over corrected. When her car came to a stop, she was in a marshy area very close to a small lake. She was pretty scared.
Fortunately, there was no real damage to the car or to herself. One tire needed to be fixed, but the worst part was how muddy her car was. The entire white car was covered with splashes of mud. Front to back. Side to side. Even on top.
Peter also had an experience where he was distracted and ultimately found that he was lacking faith. Jesus sent the disciples out onto the lake ahead while He spent time in prayer. In the middle of the night, Jesus met them somewhere on the Sea of Galilee.
Frightened, they cried out. Jesus told them not to be afraid because He was coming to them. Peter wasn’t so sure and asked for proof. Jesus simply said, “Come.”
Peter stepped out of the boat and began the journey toward Jesus. However, the waves frightened Peter. Peter took his eyes off of Jesus. Just for a few moments. Suddenly, Peter began to sink and he cried out for the Master to save him.
Another lesson in faithlessness was taught to Peter that night. Jesus reached out to Peter and together they climbed into the boat. The wind died down and the group believed Jesus to be the Son of God. (Matthew 14:22-33)
Oh, how I feel that faithlessness at times. I know I should believe. I know I shouldn’t doubt. But I do. And Jesus says the same thing to me that He said to Peter. “You of little faith, why did you doubt?”
I too, take my eyes off of Jesus and need to be rescued by the Savior. I reach out my hand and repent for my lack of faith.
Good thing for me, Jesus doesn’t tire of pulling me out of the water.
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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A Nasty Bug

My laptop was somehow infected by a virus. A spybot. It has taken days to get rid of the junk that accompanied this little worm. Even down to completely removing everything from my laptop and starting from scratch.
That sounded like a great idea. However, now that I have my laptop back, nothing is the same! Microsoft Word is completely different. All of my “favorites” on the internet are gone. My virus protector is driving me crazy with its desire to keep my laptop free of the horrors that accompany emails or visits to web pages.
And I’m weary from trying to remember the passwords to each and every program, website, and email.
It’s been difficult to even write. All of my writings are on my laptop. So when I had to work on my husband’s laptop for a couple of days, it was a real struggle to get into the groove. I just couldn’t get inspired.
I feel a little defeated!
Maybe I’m more frustrated than defeated. I just want everything to go back to the way it was…before. Before my entire electronic world was destroyed. Guess what? It’s not going to happen. I must learn to live with the way things are now. Suspicious. Cautious. Leary. Concerned. Anxious. I think I’m becoming my virus protection software!
The problem is I don’t want to be!
I don’t want to have any of the feelings mentioned above. So I’m going to give it all to Jesus.
I am going to give it to the Prince of Peace so that I might have His peace.
I am going to give it to the Good Shepherd so that He might lead me.
I am going to give it to the Rabbi so that I might learn from Him.
I am going to give it to the Lord of All so that He will be in complete control.
I will adjust. Life will get easier. Normal will soon return. Until that time, I will trust in Jesus knowing that I don’t need to worry. Today I choose peace. Today I choose guidance. Today I choose instruction. Today I choose surrender.
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)
Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Donna
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